My (21f) boyfriend (22m) said he wouldn't want to date me if I had slept with as many people as him.
I'm not to sure how this was brought up but last night we were laying in bed when he said that if I had had slept with as many people as him (roughly 30) then he wouldn't have wanted to date me. He also said that it's a turn off that I slept with him on the first date and he's surprised that he like me because of this.
He said something about it being instinctual for guys to want to sleep with a lot of girl and a status thing, which is why it makes it okay for him to have that history and not me.
I find this logic very sexist and full of double standard. I'm super pissed and not sure how to handle it.
Edit: for those of you judging the amount of partner he has had in the past, your view is just as bad as his.
Update/edit?: This really got a lot more attention then i was expecting and he has now also seen this post. I really appreciate everyone's advice but I dont think am ready to make a rash decision just yet (much to the annoyance of most people on this thread). I've taken on bored some of the advice being said and think that I need to sit down and have proper conversations with him before i decide if i should continue this or not. I think I should hear him out when I have calmed down a bit and am less angry to give him a chance to explain his point of view.
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