**UPDATE** My (F28) boyfriend (M33) says he’s disgusted by my body hair and I have to laser remove it and pay for it or else he’ll leave me. He says I’m not taking his happiness into consideration and if I can’t sacrifice this for him what else won’t I be willing to sacrifice down the road.
*EDIT * I'll keep you updated because I've been contacted by Genny Glassman from CafeMom blog to ask me a few questions about my experience and by a user u/goldleafboy who's kindly asked my permission to turn my story into an animation.
ATTENTION CafeMom is an antivaxx site! I've been informed by u/Defiant_Asparagus that CafeMom promotes an *ANTIVAXX AGENDA with articles like this one so fuck them. I won't be letting them use my story in any way shape or form and won't respond to any of Genny Glassman's questions. I do not support the Antivaxx movement so any ignorant bacwards blog associated with it can of fuck off.
Thank you so much for all the love and support to everyone in this sub <3
Hi guys this is an update on my previous post.
I just wanted to update you on my situation so far. I dumped my now ex-boyfriend!
I sent him a text with a link to the other thread and told him I’ve decided to laser remove him from my life because I’m not –and shouldn't have to be- willing to make any sacrifices down the road -like modifying my body- for anybody. I told him his unhealthy attitude towards the women body disgusts me makes me gag. He’s unable to compromise, didn't respect my wishes, space and boundaries and I won’t allow anyone to pressure me into doing anything I'm not comfortable with by giving me and ultimatum. He’s managed to put me off him and he’s not the type of man I choose to have a relationship with.
I also added a couple telephone numbers for clinical psychologists and suggested he gets an appointment to sort out his developmental issues, phobia or whatever the hell is wrong with him. I asked not to contact me again and blocked him.
Almost straight away he sent me a video of him from a different number crying his eyes out to the camera saying he loves me I’m ruining his life, he had great plans for me and is only guilty of wanting me to achieve my full potential as a woman.
I deleted it and blocked that number too. A couple hours later he sent me yet another video of him from yet another different phone number saying I took things too far by posting it online and making him ‘go viral’ and he’s not a pedophile and why wasn’t I answering the door.
I didn’t finish watching that one either. My brother called him on that number and said if he didn’t leave me alone we’d go to the police so he better quits harassing me. He’s since stopped bothering me.
I cried a lot the first day because I was in so much pain inside but then it hit me, as much as I thought I loved him, nobody that shitty deserves me crying over him. His shitty attitude has helped me get over him pretty quickly, although of course I’m still hurt over the disappointment he turned out to be. But being with my brother (I moved in with him in another city) and my puppy is keeping me very distracted. I’ve been hanging out a lot with my girlfriends and tonight we’re going out to eat tacos and go dancing.
The world keeps turning and life goes on. Thank you so much to all of you for your support and kind messages.
TL;DR Bf wanted me to laser remove my body hair to please him. I instead laser removed the bf.
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