Poly relationships are mostly destined for failure

For some reason, this site has obsessive defense mechanism for poly relationships. I'm not deleting my comments though, which were downvoted to shit.

"Because monogamous relationships never blow up right?" is a defense I see every time I have this argument.

You can't honestly believe poly relationships have the same success rate. How many happy old people poly relationships do you see? How many friends, parents, or celebrities, or youtubers, do you see having happy poly relationships?

It's inherently a cuckish design. Youre trying to be serious but at the same time seeing other people. Love triangles almost never end well. I've never seen a happy poly relationship yet ive seen so many try for one.

Monogamous or even friends with benefits, most of the time work a lot better. Having this uneven mix; serious feelings about the future yet fucking each other's friends, doesn't work. Humans are always going to have a bit of territorial tendency.

Being completely emotionally detatched, no strings or feelings, fucking for fun, OR being emotionally and physically exclusive to one another, have always been the better two options. Polyamory is an unstable, unpredictable, and psychologically damaging mix of the two.

Why it's vehemently supported and defended to be poly on this site is beyond me.

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